One-third of parents depressed by pregnancy loss

Over 30 percent of parents suffered from moderate to severe depression symptoms after fetal loss or stillbirth, a study found.

The study, conducted by the University of Hong Kong Department of Social Work and Social Administration between September and October last year, polled some 250 couples who had ever lost their babies or more than once.

It found that 34 percent of the families had one of the parents suffering from depression symptoms, and 10 percent of couples reported both partners being simultaneously affected by depression.

Grief and depression would continue even after a year of pregnancy loss, as 31.4 percent of couples still face depressive emotions, and 65 percent continue to experience complicated grief — a persistent emotional turmoil and memories related to the lost pregnancy.

The university suggested that grief would not naturally fade with time and that long-term support is crucial.

Paul Wong Wai-ching, Associate Professor in HKU’s Department of Social Work and Social Administration, highlighted a cultural norm in Hong Kong where pregnancies are often kept private during the first three months, with only the couple acknowledging the situation.

“We should try to normalize grief for those experiencing pregnancy loss,” Wong said. “If something happens during this period, it is difficult for them to share their feelings with others, which often leads to their emotions being overlooked. This is an issue that deserves more attention.”  

Wong also added that couples should support one another and avoid placing blame. Instead, they should face the experience together, communicate freely, and open up their feelings.

(Charlotte Lam)