Volunteers show care in program for the ages

Adelyn Lau

Some elderly Hongkongers are giving back to society and fostering a sense of self worth by participating in volunteer projects supported by the Social Welfare Department.

These initiatives not only bring hope to fellow seniors but also help bridge generation gaps.

One project, part of the Opportunities for the Elderly Program and organized by Caritas District Elderly Center in Yuen Long, was recognized as the best one-year program for serving more than 700 elderly residents.

From last May to this January, more than 100 volunteers provided free haircuts and prepared soft meals for those living in care homes.

They also visited seniors who live alone or are frail, offering one-on-one home decluttering.

Charles, a 64-year-old volunteer, regretted not knowing how to properly care for his mother before she was felled by a bout of stroke four years ago. "If I had known how to make soft meals sooner, she could have truly enjoyed her dishes," he said.

The positive feedback he received from the elderly he served helped him overcome his guilt.

Another initiative, organized by the Young Women's Christian Association's Ming Yue District Elderly Community Center, held life education activities for both seniors and students from the Hong Kong Chinese Women's Club College from August 2022 to January.

They included film screenings, interactive workshops and carnivals that emphasized the importance of gratitude, love, apologies, forgiveness and saying goodbye.

Mandy Lee, 78, said the program helped her cope with losing her husband.

Jeffrey Tam, 17, said he realized "nagging" by the elderly often stems from concern for their families. "Now, when I interact with my elders, I make an effort to step back, consider their perspective, show my care and cherish the time I spent with them."