Regaining your work-life balance

Health & Beauty | 11 Sep 2019

There was a time when the boundaries between work and home were fairly clear. Today, however, work is likely to invade your personal life - and maintaining work-life balance is no simple task. When your work and personal lives are out of balance, your stress level is likely to soar.

This might be especially true if you're concerned about losing your job due to restructuring, layoffs or other factors. Technology that enables constant connection to work can eat into time at home.

It can be tempting to rack up hours at work, especially if you're trying to earn a promotion or manage an ever-increasing workload - or simply keeping your head above water. If you're spending most of your time working though, your home life will take a hit.

Consider the consequences:

Fatigue. When you're tired, your ability to work productively and think clearly might suffer - which could take a toll on your professional reputation or lead to dangerous or costly mistakes.

Poor health. Stress is associated with adverse effects on the immune system and can worsen the symptoms you experience from any medical condition. Stress also puts you at risk of substance abuse.

Lost time with friends and loved ones. If you're working too much, you might miss important family events or milestones. It's also difficult to nurture friendships if you're always working.

Increased expectations. If you regularly work extra hours, you might be given more responsibility - which could lead to extra concerns and challenges.

As long as you're working, juggling the demands of career and personal life will be an ongoing challenge. But if you can learn to set limits and look after yourself, you can achieve the balance that's best for you.

You can't manufacture time. If you don't set limits, then work or other obligations can leave you with no time for the activities and relationships you enjoy.

Consider these ideas:

Manage your time. Cut or delegate activities you don't enjoy or can't handle - or share your concerns and possible solutions with your employer or others. Organize household tasks efficiently. Do what needs to be done and let the rest go.

Make a list. Put family events on a weekly calendar, and keep a daily to-do list at home and at work. Having a plan helps you maintain focus. When you don't have a plan, it's easy to be sucked into the plans and priorities of others.

Learn to say no. Whether it's a co-worker asking you to spearhead an extra project or your child's teacher asking you to organize a class party, remember that it's okay to respectfully say no. When you quit accepting tasks out of guilt or a sense of obligation, you'll have more time for activities meaningful to you.

-Leave work at work. With the technology to connect to anyone at any time from virtually anywhere, there may be no boundary between work and home - unless you create it. Make a conscious decision to separate work time from personal time.

-Reduce e-mail access. Check e-mails no more than three times a day - late morning, early afternoon and late in the day. If you access e-mail first thing in the morning, you tend to focus on other people's issues rather than being proactive about your own needs.

Take advantage of your options. Ask your employer about flex hours, a compressed workweek, job sharing, telecommuting or other scheduling flexibilities. The more control you have over your hours, the less stressed you're likely to be.

Shorten commitments and minimize interruptions. Most people can sustain a maximum level of concentration for no more than 90 minutes. After that, the ability to retain information decreases dramatically. When interrupted during a task, you need double or triple the time of the interruption to regain full concentration on your task.

A healthy lifestyle is essential to coping with stress and achieving work-life balance. Try to:

Eat a healthy diet. The Mediterranean diet - which emphasizes fresh fruits and vegetables and lean protein - enhances the ability to retain knowledge as well as stamina and well-being.

Get enough sleep. Lack of sleep increases stress. It's also important to avoid using personal electronic devices, such as tablets, just before bedtime. The blue light emitted by these devices decreases your level of melatonin, the hormone associated with sleep.

Make time for fun and relaxation. Set aside time each day for an activity that you enjoy, such as practicing yoga or reading. Better yet, discover activities you can do with your partner, family or friends.

Volunteer. It's important not to overschedule yourself. But research indicates that volunteering can contribute to a greater sense of work-life balance.

Bolster your support system. Join forces with co-workers who can cover for you - and vice versa - when family conflicts arise. Enlist friends and loved ones to pitch in with child care or household responsibilities when you need to work overtime or travel.

Remember, striking a healthy work-life balance isn't a one-shot deal. Creating balance is a continuous process as your family, interests and work life change. Periodically examine your priorities - and make changes - to make sure you're keeping on track.

Mayo Clinic News Network (TNS)

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